It’s not what you look at …

Image“It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see” ~ Henry David Thoreau

Have you ever driven through the Pacific Northwest or the Redwoods? Or taken an airplane over the Ozarks, the Cascades, the Appalachian or Blue Ridge Mountains? If so, then undoubtedly you’ve seen some hearty landscape – forest lands as far as your eyes could see; peaks and valleys dotted with “leftover” trees or newly planted saplings. It can be mesmerizing. And, although it’s the same scenery for everyone’s eyes, it can come across entirely different.

When I look out my office window, I see trees – cherry, blue fir, maple, ash and redbuds. I love the different colors, heights, shapes … and it’s these individual facets that lend depth to a landscape; much like individual characteristics help to define a human being.

But. When I drive or fly, I don’t notice the trees. I don’t see their individuality, their uniqueness. But. They’re still there … independently even though I consider them more of a conglomerate – as a forest, if you will. Of course without the individual tree, the forest wouldn’t exist.

Literally speaking, my eyes cannot focus on one tree from the window of an airplane. I cannot see the bird’s nest, the squirrel’s tail, or even the varying shades of green that give radiance to the forest. But the farther away I am, the bigger the picture becomes – which in itself, I suppose, is a way of telling me that sometimes it’s the stepping back from an issue that allows one to view it in its entirety.

So my dear readers I leave you with this … When you look at the forest, consider the trees. Likewise, when you see the tree, remember the forest.

This post inspired by the Daily Prompt: Landscape: “When you gaze out your window — real or figurative — do you see the forest first, or the trees?”

Tell yourself Duckie, you’re really quite lucky!

ImageSadly, I do not read as much as I’d like – but I don’t go out to dinner, run marathons or do any of those things that I used to before my children got so darn busy … but that’s OK … because it is my children that remind me daily how lucky I am. As for rereading books … I’ve heard tales about people that do that – but admittedly, I am not one.

Now I, like everyone, have my list of favorites – (Night, A Tree Grown in Brooklynothers listed here) – ones that I keep visible so that I am reminded of the lessons learned or messages reaped when I first read them. But I have never read any of them, in their entirety, twice.

I also have my list of those I want to read – War and Peace, The Count of Monte Cristo, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly … and a handful of others that sit in a not so visible place … I dust those, move them from room to room, and sometimes take them on airplanes hoping to crack one open.

BUT. Come to think of it … there is one book – one, that I have read multiple times … one that never ceases to amaze me, make me smile, or, like my children, remind me how lucky I am – because, alas … Continue reading

Should we limit the First Amendment?

ImageThe Internet is awesome. Plain and simple – it is awesome. Without it I wouldn’t be able to blog, follow my teenager’s every move on Instagram, communicate instantly with my editors no matter where they are, learn where in the world Krakatau is before my fifth grader asks, check the stock exchange (no, I don’t really do that but it sounded good), read the First Amendment, learn how to poach an egg, or … learn how to make a bomb.

The Boston Marathon bombers constructed their bombs based on information from a website – why, I wonder is that information even available to the public? There is no wishy-washy way to say this, but I believe our society has reached a point where some limitations on freedom of speech need to be considered. Bottom line, a website entitled “How to make a bomb in the kitchen of your mom”, shouldn’t be allowed to publish and if that means limiting the First Amendment, then so be it. Now, I’m not suggesting that our government create some massive, severely limiting firewall (think China), but there has to be some sort of solution.

In 1919, regarding Freedom of Speech, Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr., wrote the following: “The question in every case is whether the words used are used in such circumstances and are of such a nature as to create a clear and present danger that they will bring about the substantive evils that Congress has a right to prevent.” Continue reading

Becoming Batman for Just One Day …

Image“The most courageous thing a person can do is learn to understand that which they fight against.”

IF you could be someone else for one day, who would you be? Really – I’m curious. Now if you have one of those brains that actually gives pause before answering a question you might want to know more about the final consequences associated with becoming this person – i.e. should you choose to be Warren Buffet, do you get to keep all the interest money he earned on that particular day? Similarly, should you choose to be the president of the United States, or a congressman for that matter, would the vote(s) you cast count? The laws you uphold, the pardons you offer, the bills you veto – would those decisions be absolute? And for that matter, would you get to remember those 24-hours?

Now of course if you have one of those brains that is too quick to judge or offer forth opinions before considering the big picture, you probably already answered the question and have moved on to read another post somewhere else in the blogosphere – but if you’re still with me, before you answer, reflect for a moment on this: You must choose someone that you do not like … Continue reading

Even authors judge books by their covers

ImageI wrote a book – well, actually, I’ve written a few books … but I’ve published one (I could diverge a little more here and tell you the status on the other said books, but I’m trying to stay on topic so no wandering of the brain; yet) …

When The Caretakers first dropped – that’s the name of my published book in case I lost you – the cover was an older black and white photo. I liked the cover – I thought it depicted the environment the children were raised in and that their expressions had the kind of vagueness to make onlookers want to know more. Alas, it was highly suggested that the cover be changed to something “more commercial” – something that, “when placed next to other books of its genre would look appropriate.”

ImageAnd so, I agreed and had the cover changed – we choose yellow (it’s one of the colors that attracts buyers). And bird cages (one of the images that attracts women buyers specifically – oh, and dress forms is another – really, you should Google best selling book covers of all times – I’m telling you, the birds and the dress forms are there) … Continue reading

Fast as lightening, skinny as a stick

ImageMy daughter is 5’7 – maybe even 5’8. She is smart (unfortunately for me a little too damn smart at times); thin and muscular (she’s an athlete; probably weighs 130 pounds, wears a size 2); she is nice (to everyone except her 12-year old sister); she is beautiful (really, I’m not just saying that ‘cause she’s mine); and, most importantly, she is confident – well, for a 14-year old girl she is fairly secure.

But now this … Continue reading

Does Phil Spector really look like that?

ImageIf I were stranded in a foreign city for a day – that’s 24 hours folks – with no money and no friends I, depending on the particular day and my particular mood, would probably end up in jail …

First, no money means I can’t (legally) do any of those over-the-top touristy type things … but that’s OK ‘cause the most amazing places in this world don’t require any money to take in all the real good stuff anyway.  Of course it also means I couldn’t eat – but, truthfully, one measly day without any caloric consumption would probably do this body good. So having no money is fine … Continue reading