Literally Alice

The greatest thing about being young, and by young I mean younger than anyone who would potentially be reading this … or anyone that is presumably out of grade school, is that they have the innate ability to say what they mean, and actually mean what they say.

For example, I have a ten year old daughter who not all that long ago told me, “I (she) want to be smaller.”

Puzzled and anxious, my mind started blaring … WARNING … WARNING …could she have an eating disorder? Was she experiencing some sort of peril that was making her think she needed to be skinny? Like super DUPER skinny. Bear in mind, this girl is far from overweight- she is fit, she is slim, she is smart, she is friendly and truthfully gorgeous.

And then, was this my fault? She’s certainly overheard me complain about some conceived imperfection … be it five pounds, ten pounds … be it hair not straight enough or hair too curly … she’s seen me skip dinner … she has seen me eat too much dinner … Was the culprit behind her sudden walk to the dark side of (gulp) dieting because of something I said?

But before I could decipher the correct words (if there are any) to ease what I feared was a wary mind, I simply asked, “Why?”

And she cleanly, purely answered, “Because it would be really cool to fit into a mouse hole and see just where they go.” She shrugged, walked out of the room and went on with her day.

I laughed. Relieved. And a bit annoyed with myself for my erroneous assumption. And as I watched her walk away, I couldn’t help but wonder if, perhaps, there was a mouse hole somewhere in our house … now THAT, was something to worry about.

So what about you?  When you jump too fast to a conclusion, are you able to let your brain breathe a minute and decode the literal from the fictional? Are there times when, in retrospect, you wish you would have?

14 Comments Add yours

  1. Stacy says:

    New follower! Thanks for stopping by Shauna! I can't wait to enter the giveaway for your new novel! I'm always looking for new books to read!

  2. I'm quick tempered but I think long and hard about things too much.

    P.s I'm your new follower!

    Happy weekend!

  3. Beverly says:

    Ha! You made me laugh aloud. We adults (and I'm definitely including myself) really have issues, don't we?! Your brain exactly like mine would have.

  4. Meryl says:

    I cannot, for some reason open your follower button. I will try again later….:-(

  5. Meryl says:

    Listening and pausing are SO important! Great post. I am you newest follower!

  6. It's funny how, although experience is the best teacher, it also tries to lead us down the wrong path a lot of the time. Asking “why” any time we reach a conclusion is a great idea, and I'm glad you brought it up!

  7. Mindog1 says:

    I try to look at all sides of a thing… maybe that is a bit much, but I like to think of it as being well thought out… MINdog Owt from Shitty Fabulous Lives

  8. Slamdunk says:

    Yes I do jump to conclusions, but sometimes my hunch is right and my “driving words” are to blame for something that a kiddo repeated to mom.

  9. Kathi says:

    Thanks for following and your great comment..I went to your site and read the post with begin and being…I caught it right away…it is easy to miss things as I sure I have..but what I really can't stand is when some people claim to be so sophisticated, able to be such a great writer…and spell receive the wrong way…they actually have been caught in wrongful acts by this misspelling by making it known it was them..LOL…love your blog…already a follower…

  10. Chavonne says:

    Hello, I'm a new gfc follower of your blog :) Love to have you follow back if possible :)

  11. Cyn says:

    ahhh to be young again when you say what you mean and there are no hidden meanings/agendas behind your words. she literally wanted to be small — brilliant!

    thanks for the follow and excellent comment you left on my blog — i am beyond gracious!

    misadventures of a chunky goddess

  12. supernoz says:

    Very well said. I think I might know a similar ten year old :)

  13. As a mother of 2 and a preschool teacher I have learned that what children are asking isn't always what you think they are asking. I often have to find out exactly what they mean in order to answer their questions appropriately. =)

    I am stopping by from the Mompact Blog Hop and following you back via GFC. =)

  14. Traci says:

    I've always been an over thinker, but over the years I've learned to just ask or say the simple response. It does take practice!

    Following you back via GFC!

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