A Girls Best Friend??

I like diamonds.  And I’m “fortunate” enough to own a few … well, maybe more than a few by some standards – but I have one of those husbands that over the years has given me jewelry.  Oh, and one of those mother-in-laws that also likes to gift family heirlooms now that I have been married to her son long enough to qualify.  BUT.  Every now and then there is a picture released … a school lesson resurfaced … or a story that breaks … (like today’s article by Los Angeles Times, Neela Banerjee) and I am reminded of the sacrifices that were made so my fingers, my ears, my neck and my wrist, can sport flashes of precise cuts, pristine clarity and flawless brilliant color.
If you saw the movie Blood Diamond, or if you are aware at all of the blatant disregard for human life that exists in the war torn areas of Africa that trade these precious stones, then you undoubtedly are at least conscious to the plight of the thousands of mutilated lives fashioned in this iniquitous market. 
So what’s a girl to do?  Well, it depends – on a number of things.  First of all, I am NOT here to preach or demoralize anyone … I am only here to make you aware … and then to let you make your own decisions.  That’s the beauty of living in a Western society – you are free to choose.  So I’ll tell you what this girl has done … first, the diamonds that this girl owns, she will continue to wear … BUT, I am mindful of their conception and I am not obtuse enough to think that they all originated in a non-conflict zone even though according to DeBeers their diamonds are 100% conflict free and supposedly, reputable jewelers only buy diamonds from vendors who adhere to the policies set forth by the United Nations. Supposedly. 
I only wish sometimes, that I knew the story behind the diamonds that I do own … that I was aware of their journey to my hand, neck, wrist … and that in the future, the highly coveted stones came with a “made in” or “product origin” stamp … because for me, being aware of atrocities isn’t enough … it’s being responsive that makes the difference. 
On a side note, should you choose to search Google Images for “Conflict Diamonds”, I am telling you to be careful because what you will see is far worse than anything you can imagine and far worse than anything you will ever personally endure, God willing.

8 Comments Add yours

  1. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I am following you back. I did see that movie Blood Diamond and sure does put it in prespective where some of ones diamond jewels may have come from. Your book sounds great. Any chance I can get a copy to read/review for my blog?

  2. Great post! The best thing is to investigate before buying and purchase from most reputable store….

  3. MiMi says:

    Ya know? I always wonder that too. Good thing I hardly have any diamonds. LOL <-- sorta.

  4. Great post and definitely something to be more aware of. I love diamonds, have not been lucky enough to own any or meet a nice hubby like yours to give them to me. It would be nice though, lol. Anyway, I wanted to thank you for stopping by and for following and for your kind words. I am now following back through GFC and Twitter. I'll be sure to check back often for more great reads and I hope to have you back as well. Thank you and Happy Holidays:)


  5. Erica says:

    I totally agree! That movie really makes you wonder where all the nice things we have in this country come from and the blood thats spilled for us to have luxuries

  6. Lauren says:

    oh yes ! nice post ! ^^

  7. Vivian says:

    I saw that movie and because of it I learned of a conflict or issue I was so oblivious, too. I'm please with the decision that we make as a couple (and family) to spend our money on travels and seeing the world than in toys, gadgets and…diamonds.

  8. Anonymous says:

    wow… That is quite an article to read. As with all things one must understand that there are responcible retailers of the precious stones and they will continue to be, but dont be afraid to ask your jewlere where the stones came from and are they “conflict free”. A reputable retailer will tell you the truth!

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