Self-Care is NOT Optional

Blond woman holding a glass of wine, sittin outside in the sun smiling, hugging her dog.

One afternoon, while sitting in the middle of my rabbit hole munching on carrots with my fellow feeling-sorry-for-myself friends … I realized, that in the midst of my current chaos I hadn’t done any of the things that truly make me happy for a few days. Maybe even a week. The things that give me strength. Straighten my backbone. Allow me to flourish. To thrive.

Of which, I know now, there are five … it had been over a week since I’d been to yoga, spent time in the sunshine, cooked, done any writing, or had human touch.

And I need those five things. At least one of those things. If I don’t have at least one of those things every few days—preferably two or three every day—then I wilt a little.

And so … I forced myself to go to a hot yoga class. It wasn’t easy. My feeling-sorry-for-myself friends were starting to dip carrots in chocolate, so I had a reason to stay in my rabbit hole … (yes, I talk in metaphors.) Alas, I f’ing crawled out, went to class, came home and sat outside in the sun for an hour … and I did some writing. Later that afternoon, my husband was back in town and so … well … I got my “fill” if you will, of human touch and before long, I started to feel “normal,” and had lost my appetite for carrots.

I still needed to cook. And by cook, I mean really cook … not warm something up in the microwave—the nachos we had the previous weekend don’t count.

Today’s post inspired by, well … me … and the Word Press daily prompt: What are five everyday things that make you happy? Cover image is me and my dog (clearly, not the German Shephard) … and yes, my dog, wine, and of course, my family make me happy too ; ) But those are stories for another day.

SIDEBAR: Slight shoutout Peloton instructor Denis Morton whom mentioned this very idea in a class a few months ago—it just took me a hot minute to put it all together for myself : )

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