I read once that we have multiple soulmates. And that they come and go in our lives, sometimes staying for years, sometimes for a few moments, sometimes without even acknowledgement. Yet the idea of having multiple soulmates goes against everything that’s, shall we say, conventional. But it makes sense because the idea that one person can be your everything is a bit hard to swallow—especially considering how long our lifespan is and how many people cross our paths on any given day, let alone our capacity to love. Think about it for a minute … for as much as you can love a spouse or significant other … what about a child, a dear friend, hell maybe a dog. (Sorry cat-lovers, but a cat cannot be a soulmate—they just can’t. End of story.)
So, if the true definition of a soulmate is someone who compliments your life in such a way that you cannot imagine living without them … well, then, I would have to agree with non-conventionalism and insist that we most certainly do have multiple soulmates—whether we recognize them or not (still no cats though).
“People think a soulmate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soulmate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soulmate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soulmates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soulmates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert
Bottomline, I suppose it depends on how one defines the term “soulmate.” I believe at different points in my life, I have had souls around me for very specific reasons, each fulfilling an unrecognized need. And yes, I do think a few of my four-legged friends fall int that category; as do I my husband. LOL. He’ll be thrilled when he reads this.
How about you? Do you believe in the existence of such a “soul” or multiple ones—for you?”
Today’s post inspired by the WordPress daily prompt: Do you believe in soulmates? Cover image created with Jetpack AI.
DISCLAIMER: These are my personal experiences and opinions. Nothing here is medical, nutritional, or therapeutic advice. Also, I’m a writer and an editor. And I try my best to make sure every post is articulate and free from errors. However, being that I edit my own work—and it’s next to impossible to properly edit your own work—I admit, occasionally there may be an error or two I miss. But doing so doesn’t make me an idiot so don’t be mean. Just smile, pat yourself on the back for finding an error and be glad you’re not the only one who makes mistakes sometimes … xoxox
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